In recent years, there has been a tug-o-war going on inside my head in regard to the concept of self-care. A feeling of guilt consumed me despite me knowing it’s my right to care for[…]
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Category: Empowerment
Metamorphosis
For the past few months I have been cocooning in my crysalis, retreating from aspects of my life in order to wayfind my way through a period of immense metamorphosis. It’s been a mammoth time[…]
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Musical Mindfulness
Remaining in the present moment is challenging when you’re going through a stressful experience that is full of uncertainty. It’s been tempting for me to chase reassurance and insight as to what the future holds.[…]
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Waiting to Fly High with Courage
This afternoon, I sat watching a kārearea gliding above treetops. As the bird spiralled effortlessly on the air current, I mused how easy things are when conditions are perfect and courage is plentiful. Lately as[…]
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A Time For Renewal
Easter is more significant for me this year than it has been for a very long time. I have leapt off the cliff at an ending, and I’m floating toward a new beginning. I don’t[…]
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The Importance of Being Me
You’re never going to be everyone’s cup of tea. What matters most is that you find joy in being you. I enjoy being me. I always have. Going to the movies solo, dining alone, and[…]
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False Expectations
When we place expectations on others, it can only ever lead to disappointment and self-inflicted frustration. When placing expectations on another person, we stop focussing on what we contribute to the dynamics of a situation.[…]
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The Legacy of Prejudice
As a professional project manager within the construction industry, overcoming prejudice has been a mighty hurdle. The other day something happened that prompted a realisation. Even though the same dynamics persist and historical battle scars[…]
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Battling the Fires Within
With the fires taking hold around the Nelson Tasman region this past week, people have been tested to the very core of their being. Whilst there has been a lot of fear, there has also[…]
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Honouring Yourself in the Circus of Life
How often do you make resolutions to care more for yourself and then renege on these promises when the going gets challenging? When the pace of life gathers speed and I struggle to keep up,[…]
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